Criticism vs. Attack: YOU Don’t Get to Talk About US!

Donald Unger
5 min readFeb 22, 2019
Photo by Richard Lee on Unsplash

Why We Can’t Talk

I’m Jewish but grew up third-generation secular.

My mother was a Zionist Socialist who left New York City when she graduated high school and moved to Israel — then, a few years later, in the late 1950's, she moved back to New York again.

She hadn’t found gender equality in Israel; nor was she happy with the treatment of the Israeli Arabs — read “Palestinians” — which, that far back, she felt too closely tracked the treatment of African Americans in the US.

Criticism of Israel?

I don’t have any problem with that; I was born with a “primary source” that I trust.

I don’t think that America, or any other country, is above criticism either.

That said, it is undeniably true that some percentage of people who criticize Israel — and Zionism — are using that as a scrim for antisemitism.

What do I “do” with that?

Mostly . . . I try to listen.

And I try not to — prematurely — deploy or “play” the discrimination card.

That’s hard.

Because . . . trying to pick apart what constitutes “legitimate criticism” and what constitutes flat-out attack?

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Donald Unger

I write what I know and what I’ve lived: humor & chronic pain; politics & parenting; business writing & cultural analysis; and . . . ranting (a lot of ranting).